In TOTAL fvckin agreement with Xpanda in Illini.
As I get older I am amazed at how much shit girls put up with when we were younger because of all the fear they had about resisting or telling anyone, it's seriously a mental, paralyzed feeling. I really don't think any of us dudes can relate.
As I get older I am amazed at how much shit girls put up with when we were younger because of all the fear they had about resisting or telling anyone, it's seriously a mental, paralyzed feeling. I really don't think any of us dudes can relate.
Not to mention the guy was an authority figure over her that she trusted. She had no way of knowing this thing was gonna turn sexual on her. Maybe if she was a little older and had more life experience, she would have seen some alarming signs before it got to that point. But it's ridiculous to put any blame on the poor girl. This guy is just a sick fuck that abused his power. He should pay for this in a big way.
No one said she was responsible for any of this and no where does it say she was in danger of being raped. I take issue with her saying she didn't know what to do. Most 17 year olds know enough to walk away.
Like I mentioned before, she's a few months away from being 18. She isn't that far removed from being old enough to go out on her own. Most places recognize a person of this age as an adult.
WTF are you talking about? She was raped. Maybe not penis penetration raped, but she was sexually assaulted. You never know how you're going to react, when you are forced into trauma, and you're not qualified to make that judgment of her. The fact that this was her coach and an authority figure is a lot different than her being on a date with a boy her age. She was a victim of a crime here, plain and simple.
If you think girls that age can make smart decisions, you're wrong.
I know it's hard to imagine but just watch this video.
This girl was 16 and worked at McDonalds. A guy calls up pretending to be a police officer and tells the manager that she did something wrong and tells the manager and his fiancee to strip search her.
The manager continues to watch her naked do jumping jacks, spank her, and then force her to give him oral sex.
She didn't do shit, she could have ran out. Hard to imagine but it's some psychological shit.
I know it's hard to imagine but just watch this video.
This girl was 16 and worked at McDonalds. A guy calls up pretending to be a police officer and tells the manager that she did something wrong and tells the manager and his fiancee to strip search her.
The manager continues to watch her naked do jumping jacks, spank her, and then force her to give him oral sex.
She didn't do shit, she could have ran out. Hard to imagine but it's some psychological shit.
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WTF are YOU talking about? She was not raped. I never said she wasn't a victim of a crime. You and I are talking about two different things here.
Even though she was a victim of a sexual assault I believe she is old enough to make the right decision to get out of there. If she turns 18 and goes to college and her college coach tries the same thing no crime occurs. The only difference is a couple months of age.
The guy fucking jizzed on her, get real. Is rape limited to penile penetration? Maybe by law definition it is, but this is just about as serious, and could really screw her up. Like I said, the coach had authority over her, she was probably in shock, and when trauma occurs, you cannot predict how you would react. If it was a college coach, it may not be a crime, but it would be an ethics crime, and he would be fired immediately. She's still a kid, and this stuff should never happen. It would be different if she was on a date with a boy her age. She was at her coach's house, and there was no reason for her to believe that anything of this sort was even a remote possiblity until it was actually happening.
Ok let me ask you all a question.
Lets say when you were 17 you wrestled. And lets say your wrestling coach invited you over to try out some new moves. When you get to his place he invited you to his room and than asked if he could give you a sports massage. Than he asked you to get in a pair of speedos. Than....
At what point would you have gotten up and said I aint letting this *** jizz all over my back.
Is the difference that shes a girl? Are girls dumber? At 17 if one of my coaches would have tried this I would have know to get the fuck out.
Lets say when you were 17 you wrestled. And lets say your wrestling coach invited you over to try out some new moves. When you get to his place he invited you to his room and than asked if he could give you a sports massage. Than he asked you to get in a pair of speedos. Than....
At what point would you have gotten up and said I aint letting this *** jizz all over my back.
Is the difference that shes a girl? Are girls dumber? At 17 if one of my coaches would have tried this I would have know to get the fuck out.
I believe her train of thought went something like this:
go over to watch videos and be coached
get a massage to help her athletically, that's okay, athletes do this all the time, and this guy is the expert
guy rubs her shoulders, okay that seems alright
guy starts rubbing her back and then all of a sudden, "what the hell is he doing rubbing my butt? Is that normal? What's going on? This feels inappropriate, what the hell is he doing?"
Then jizz on her back. "WTF just happened?"
go over to watch videos and be coached
get a massage to help her athletically, that's okay, athletes do this all the time, and this guy is the expert
guy rubs her shoulders, okay that seems alright
guy starts rubbing her back and then all of a sudden, "what the hell is he doing rubbing my butt? Is that normal? What's going on? This feels inappropriate, what the hell is he doing?"
Then jizz on her back. "WTF just happened?"
