Ask me about Thailand!

Search
Joined
Sep 21, 2004
Messages
44,966
Tokens
A very interesting read from Stickman Bangkok:

[SIZE=+1]Stickman's thoughts:[/SIZE]
My God, it is as if everything this site has been working towards has been articulated and summed up in 19,000 odd words.
This is, in my mind, the best submission this site has ever received and to use an often used cliché, this submission is COMPULSORY READING for all farangs interested in pursuing a relationship with a Thai woman.



[SIZE=+3]Readers' Submissions[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]Why I Never Married A Thai[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]By Arthur[/SIZE]


http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader1803.htm
 

Breaking Bad Snob
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
13,430
Tokens
A very interesting read from Stickman Bangkok:

[SIZE=+1]Stickman's thoughts:[/SIZE]
My God, it is as if everything this site has been working towards has been articulated and summed up in 19,000 odd words.
This is, in my mind, the best submission this site has ever received and to use an often used cliché, this submission is COMPULSORY READING for all farangs interested in pursuing a relationship with a Thai woman.



[SIZE=+3]Readers' Submissions[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]Why I Never Married A Thai[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]By Arthur[/SIZE]


http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader1803.htm


That will make for excellent reading when I'm supposed to be working tonight.

Zit, you saw my PM about the book Thailand Fever, right?
 

Oh boy!
Joined
Mar 21, 2004
Messages
38,373
Tokens
A very interesting read from Stickman Bangkok:

[SIZE=+1]Stickman's thoughts:[/SIZE]
My God, it is as if everything this site has been working towards has been articulated and summed up in 19,000 odd words.
This is, in my mind, the best submission this site has ever received and to use an often used cliché, this submission is COMPULSORY READING for all farangs interested in pursuing a relationship with a Thai woman.



[SIZE=+3]Readers' Submissions[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]Why I Never Married A Thai[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]By Arthur[/SIZE]


http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader1803.htm

I used to work with a guy who ran a scuba diving business in Phuket. He's a large reason I chose to visit there when I was in Asia. He married a Thai woman.

He said when a Thai smiles at you they must want something.
 
Joined
Oct 26, 2003
Messages
26,300
Tokens
I have a question.

Why are there so many ladyboys in Thailand and what is their motivation?

Are they there to "trick" men into paying them for sex? I don't see
how this would be beneficial, as it would seem most men would be
extremely angry if they ended up in bed with a man posing as a woman.

I can't believe that there are that many men that are into that kind of thing...

The whole thing doesn't make much sense to me.

You would be surprised the number of Euro's that are into the gay life around here...Americans are really homophobic when it comes to lifestyles in other countries...

Ladyboys are not trying to trick men into having sex...they are approached rather easily by straight and gay men...
 
Joined
Oct 26, 2003
Messages
26,300
Tokens
Let me preface this by saying I have lived here for over 8 years and have taught here for years. there is no motivation in 90% of ladyboys. Its who they are; they feel, think and want to be women. most of the ones I know and talk to would have he operation if they could afford it. Thailand is the number one place to have a sex change operation..

Why are they that way or why Thailand? I think it goes back to the culture and religion. In school someone who acts like a ladyboy;" gay in america" is not looked down on, beat on, shunned, etc. They are just another student and in most cases are more liked.

I would say most men that go with them want to- if you have been here awhile and not to drunk you can tell pretty esily.There are some that you would never guess that are/were a man or half a man but usually if asked they will tel you....

100% spot on....

I have had many conversations with ladyboys in my 3 years here and never had a problem...have shared many a round with them and have many laughs...

Just not involved sexually....I have been fooled once, but the ladyboy had the decency to tell me before we left the bar...
 
Joined
Feb 20, 2002
Messages
24,349
Tokens
So you are saying that as long as you dont know you are screwing a dude its ok?

NOT

Is it a dude if it looks, walks, talks, acts & has the body & brain of a woman.
If it is, that doesn't bother me in the least. I may have done it already, as i
already posted, and it is plausibly true of any poster here, including you,
even without having ever been in LOS. I recall the news story of a guy who
found out after marrying his Western mate that she had been/was a he.

Of course going to Thailand may increase the odds of this occurring to any
random individual. However if you follow my directions, check the ID card
for gender, educate yourself re LBs, and do your onsite investigative
detective work, it has to be nearly 100% fullproof that you would not fuck
a girl who was once a guy or 50% a guy.
 
Joined
Oct 26, 2003
Messages
26,300
Tokens
So you are saying that as long as you dont know you are screwing a dude its ok?

NOT

You really wouldn't know it and I don't believe you would kill her if you ever did find out....

Chop, you would have the time of your life over here...
 
Joined
Oct 26, 2003
Messages
26,300
Tokens
Two things...

It's only freaky the first time...and

Lips is Lips....



I think I just scared Choptalk from visiting....
 
Joined
Feb 20, 2002
Messages
24,349
Tokens
Banging every prostitute you can in Thailand as many times as possible (even if they are a stunner), without a condom,
is living life dangerously to say the least.

Everyone has their level of danger they are comfortable dieing with. I say dieing
rather than living, because we are all dieing, have a death sentence with a gun
to our heads that could go off at any moment, especially if we are old & diseased.

Some are willing to risk driving a car, skydiving, being a soldier. Others are
ok with heart killers like eating junk food or daily stressful gambling.

Sexual activities vary, with many possibilities inbetween the least risky, total
abstinence, to doing what you describe above. What is your level of tolerance.
Only sex with a virgin who you'll marry. Everything covered with anyone you can
get. BBBJ's? BLS? Anal licking or sex? DATY? etc

What some men do who visit or live in Thailand is something like the following:

"One thing I've been toying with in my head is finding a good P4P girl in the first day or two,
work out a deal for the rest of the week/my stay and go and get tested together so I can go
bareback with the -relative- comfort of knowing I won't catch anything."

Even if a condom is not defective, it won't save you from things it doesn't
provide protection from. Further, it may break or go deep inside the pussy,
which is the same as going BB & has occurred to me scores of times. Luckily i
have never contracted even a minor STD.

To quote a BBer:

"Sex in general is risky. Why do we still do it? Because it feels good.
Sex without a condom is risky. Why do some guys still do it? See above."

I'd say BB sex is not an insane idea if you just can't get it up with a condom, or are allergic to them,
or are soon to die anyway, etc. Personally i find that i used to enjoy sex with a condom just as much as without one, although it is a bit of work, inconvenience and a turn off using the cover, especially now that i usually go w/o. In the case of getting HIV you take a pill and life goes on. If the TG gets pregnant you are not liable for support in LOS & she has the responsibility to take the pill to stop it,
although some will want a baby w/o demanding any assistance. I've talked to several TG's of the mindset that if you don't have children then who will take care of you when you are old.
 

Breaking Bad Snob
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
13,430
Tokens
Everyone has their level of danger they are comfortable dieing with. I say dieing
rather than living, because we are all dieing, have a death sentence with a gun
to our heads that could go off at any moment, especially if we are old & diseased.

Some are willing to risk driving a car, skydiving, being a soldier. Others are
ok with heart killers like eating junk food or daily stressful gambling.

Sexual activities vary, with many possibilities inbetween the least risky, total
abstinence, to doing what you describe above. What is your level of tolerance.
Only sex with a virgin who you'll marry. Everything covered with anyone you can
get. BBBJ's? BLS? Anal licking or sex? DATY? etc

What some men do who visit or live in Thailand is something like the following:

"One thing I've been toying with in my head is finding a good P4P girl in the first day or two,
work out a deal for the rest of the week/my stay and go and get tested together so I can go
bareback with the -relative- comfort of knowing I won't catch anything."

Even if a condom is not defective, it won't save you from things it doesn't
provide protection from. Further, it may break or go deep inside the pussy,
which is the same as going BB & has occurred to me scores of times. Luckily i
have never contracted even a minor STD.

To quote a BBer:

"Sex in general is risky. Why do we still do it? Because it feels good.
Sex without a condom is risky. Why do some guys still do it? See above."

I'd say BB sex is not an insane idea if you just can't get it up with a condom, or are allergic to them,
or are soon to die anyway, etc. Personally i find that i used to enjoy sex with a condom just as much as without one, although it is a bit of work, inconvenience and a turn off using the cover, especially now that i usually go w/o. In the case of getting HIV you take a pill and life goes on. If the TG gets pregnant you are not liable for support in LOS & she has the responsibility to take the pill to stop it,
although some will want a baby w/o demanding any assistance. I've talked to several TG's of the mindset that if you don't have children then who will take care of you when you are old.

Lube inside and outside a polyurethane condom is pretty close to the real deal.

Also, where in the hell are you finding multitudes of girls who are willing to go bareback? Do you pay them extra? The girls I was with would have none of it, even after 3 barfines over 2 weeks. In fact, Pennapa (whom I have mentioned several times in this thread) wouldn't even blow me the first time without a condom. That requirement went away the second time, but sex with no condom was out of the question.

To each their own, I guess. The entire time I was there, I never saw a FL I would fuck. Right or wrong, I have this perception that the girls in the go-gos are "cleaner".
 

Breaking Bad Snob
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
13,430
Tokens
A very interesting read from Stickman Bangkok:

[SIZE=+1]Stickman's thoughts:[/SIZE]
My God, it is as if everything this site has been working towards has been articulated and summed up in 19,000 odd words.
This is, in my mind, the best submission this site has ever received and to use an often used cliché, this submission is COMPULSORY READING for all farangs interested in pursuing a relationship with a Thai woman.



[SIZE=+3]Readers' Submissions[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]Why I Never Married A Thai[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+3]By Arthur[/SIZE]


http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader1803.htm

Decent read. He makes a lot of valid points, many of which are backed up by Thailand Fever. However, the guy comes across as a real asshole, which may have contributed to his attitude toward the Thai people.

He is spot on concerning the lack of intellectual curiosity, which was one of the first things I noticed. Thailand will never elevate itself beyond a 2nd world country due to their educational system. In the scheme of things, Thailand hasn't really contributed much to the world throughout history except for smoking hot women and great food.

That said, if you find a TG who is willing to make concessions to your culture, and you to hers, I don't see how the divorce rate would be out of proportion to Western rates.
 
Joined
Feb 20, 2002
Messages
24,349
Tokens
X-Files.....out of curiousity, how old are you?

Early 50's & doubting that i want to live to 60, let alone 70. Have BBed 7 TGs
in the last 6 weeks and 4 young ladies in my own country w/i the last 6 months.
Prior to that it was only one occurence besides those with my ex. As to the TGs
some of them have seen my STD results & i am asking to see a couple of theirs
that i see regularly.
 

New member
Joined
Nov 29, 2005
Messages
4,391
Tokens
For those that just can't believe what they are reading, I GUARANTEE someone you know is hiring hookers in the states. I didn't realize some in my close circle did it until we went to Vegas and a couple of them hired a prostitue. Another night they did the rub and tug and one of them fucked one of the massage gals as well (paid more than the rub and tug).

Huge world out there apparently in every state. Not sure I agree with the bareback stuff but I'm not judging those that do. Some people skydive, others have sex with hookers. Not for me but I can certaintly see the allure...
 

Breaking Bad Snob
Joined
Dec 5, 2004
Messages
13,430
Tokens
I think if this thread ever falls off the first page, I'll start posting pictures of hotties from Thai Love Links.
 

Member
Joined
Sep 21, 2004
Messages
1,459
Tokens
I used to work with a guy who ran a scuba diving business in Phuket. He's a large reason I chose to visit there when I was in Asia. He married a Thai woman.

He said when a Thai smiles at you they must want something.

Very true. and thai women smile frequently, i mean all the time.
 
Joined
Feb 20, 2002
Messages
24,349
Tokens
Lube inside and outside a polyurethane condom is pretty close to the real deal.
"
I agree. Excellent advice. IMPE if i could warm up to the point of almost cumming
with a BBBJ or wanking while she did something else {e.g. BLS, DFK}, then put
the hat on {quickly w/o scratching & infecting my dick with her long finger
nails}, then condom sex is as good as w/o the cover.

Also, where in the hell are you finding multitudes of girls who are willing to go bareback? Do you pay them extra?
"
Some of them i've known for a year or three & they've seen my negative STD test results.
Add to that that i'm generous and live here year after year for 6 months in 12, and
they may see that as a good source of long term revenue, which may be a motivation
in them being willing to go the extra mile. Some others i just met recently have also
been willing for whatever reasons, including one case just before the act she asked
for the condom but agreed to double {2000 Baht} if we went BB.

Something i forget to mention in an earlier post re my BBing sex history was a TG i
met LY. While i was making out with her on top & rubbing our bare genitals together,
somehow my weenie got inside her for a few minutes and she didn't protest. After a
while though she asked me to put the condom on which i did. I saw her again this
year and she was willing to go BB, although at first she was not agreeable to it.

In another episode 2-3 years ago, i forgot to put the rubber on and was already
inside the TG when she said something like "you don't want condom?" I withdrew,
went to toilet for quick wash, & returned for condom sex.

About 2 years ago i was with a real stunner who i was asking to rub her pussy on
my bare dick. She wasn't clear what i wanted and asked if i wanted it inside her.
So evidently she was willing to do it, for a price, if i recall 5000B/hr. She
was BTW a regular at the time.

Bottom line, in brief, IME, and from what i've read online, BB sex is fairly
easy to get, both in P4P here and between Thai people. You may have to pay extra,
though, or offer up some other bargaining chips for them to give it up.


The girls I was with would have none of it, even after 3 barfines over 2 weeks. In fact, Pennapa (whom I have mentioned several times in this thread) wouldn't even blow me the first time without a condom. That requirement went away the second time, but sex with no condom was out of the question.

Some girls will absolutely not do it. Well, maybe for 10 million baht you'ld have
a 99% success rate. One girl offered to for 10,000 Baht, but since i typicly get
it for 2K per hour, i declined. She was very hot, so it was tempting, but OTOH
due to that fact, i found it easy to get up and keep it up till she finally got
around to putting the hat on & fucking. But your comment reveals a point about
Thai P4P girls i think is valid, that if you see them the 2nd & 3rd times they
are often willing to put out more. So don't be discouraged by a so-so first
time if you really like a girls looks or whatever about her. OTOH there are so
many here that you shouldn't give a 2nd chance on a real lemon.

BTW Veijo really has it made here, since he is in the kingdom FT/365 days a year.
I'm sure he's also learned to pace himself and not burn himself out with the girls,
something i'm still working on.

To each their own, I guess. The entire time I was there, I never saw a FL I would fuck. Right or wrong, I have this perception that the girls in the go-gos are "cleaner".

I think some working girls, and customers, just don't care much for the bar
scene. So they are naturally attracted to each other. It might surprise you,
but in coming here since 2007 for a total of about 20 months in BKK, i've
never taken a TG from a bar, go-go, NEP, or SOI cowboy. It's almost entirely
been SW FLs, the exception being some MP's like the famous Annies.
 

Forum statistics

Threads
1,118,230
Messages
13,552,935
Members
100,579
Latest member
alo789lat1
The RX is the sports betting industry's leading information portal for bonuses, picks, and sportsbook reviews. Find the best deals offered by a sportsbook in your state and browse our free picks section.FacebookTwitterInstagramContact Usforum@therx.com