Kidman, as to popular sex acts in the US not accepted or less accepted in Thailand.
When I first starting going there in 1989 your question was VERY much on point. Due to Buddhist beliefs, oral sex was not the norm but the exception any many falangs (foreigners) had arguments with the girls or bar managers or mamasans the next day over this issue.
The girls call giving a BJ "smoke" and you definitely had to ask before paying her bar fine and taking her out. Many would say "no smoke, no smoke". I had a good laugh one time in the Tahitian Queen Go Go bar when I was singing along to a country western song by Hank Williams Jr. The part where he sings, Hank why do you drink and Hank why do you roll smokes... The girl I was sitting with got very anxious and told me "no smoke, no smoke"!
With the passage of 20 years of tourists and pressure by other girls who do smoke, it is not such an issue now. Still a good idea to ask first however.
When I first starting going there in 1989 your question was VERY much on point. Due to Buddhist beliefs, oral sex was not the norm but the exception any many falangs (foreigners) had arguments with the girls or bar managers or mamasans the next day over this issue.
The girls call giving a BJ "smoke" and you definitely had to ask before paying her bar fine and taking her out. Many would say "no smoke, no smoke". I had a good laugh one time in the Tahitian Queen Go Go bar when I was singing along to a country western song by Hank Williams Jr. The part where he sings, Hank why do you drink and Hank why do you roll smokes... The girl I was sitting with got very anxious and told me "no smoke, no smoke"!
With the passage of 20 years of tourists and pressure by other girls who do smoke, it is not such an issue now. Still a good idea to ask first however.
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