Anyone here marry a woman with BPD ?

[Michelangelo]

Have never dealt with a woman like that.

Would have no idea how to handle the situation but it sounds like you are still in love. Think you should break it. Her definition of love and yours don't match up. That's the biggie.

Like Willie said, time cures. Just believe that and keep telling yourself that one day the light will shine again and things will make sense again. Believe that. It's true.

Good luck, man.

 

[TimmyRules]

Some men would say every woman has at least a little bit of Borderline Personality order going on. My wife has it has much as you possibly can. She left me a month ago, got a lease using a fake identity and moved in with another guy. Says she will never give me a divorce, even though she can't stop it. Texts me every day saying she loves me and will be coming back. Just incredible bat shit crazy.

Couple more things to consider:

Document EVERYTHING!!

If you still want to work it out and she refuses help, document all that!

Every time she leaves, document all that!

Save every text, email, voice mail etc etc.

Better to have it and not need it then a lawyer ask if you have any proof of her behavior and you say no.

BOL spartanfan53! Hope it works out for both you.

 

[pathologist]

Fucking run

 

[MattyMatt]

At the same time I don't think God expects all preachers to be struggling to get by, living in a shack, and preaching in some tiny building like it seems many people think when preachers have amassed some level of financial security.

Why? Jesus himself did...

 

[MattyMatt]

Have never dealt with a woman like that.

Would have no idea how to handle the situation but it sounds like you are still in love. Think you should break it. Her definition of love and yours don't match up. That's the biggie.

Like Willie said, time cures. Just believe that and keep telling yourself that one day the light will shine again and things will make sense again. Believe that. It's true.

Good luck, man.

Fucking run

Nailed it!

 

[MattyMatt]

Couple more things to consider:

Document EVERYTHING!!

If you still want to work it out and she refuses help, document all that!

Every time she leaves, document all that!

Save every text, email, voice mail etc etc.

Better to have it and not need it then a lawyer ask if you have any proof of her behavior and you say no.

BOL spartanfan53! Hope it works out for both you.

Now I can totally agree with this post, Timmy. Lol

 

[CoolBreeze22]

Usually the crazier the woman, the better the sex. I can understand how guys get sucked back into these situations when you have so much time invested, not to mention your heart. Once she's shacked up with another guy it's better to just move on than to always have that in the back of your mind.

 

[CoolBreeze22]

Why? Jesus himself did...

Jesus also didn't have a wife and kids. Are we all supposed to live like that too.

 

[MattyMatt]

Jesus also didn't have a wife and kids. Are we all supposed to live like that too.

Nope. He also died in his early 30s, whereas, the average lifespan now is in the 70s. And of course he didn't have kids, then the fairytale wouldn't work, would it...

Let me explain a little further. I mentioned Ron Carpenter and John Gray, I know these two personally. If Ron Carpenter was the founder/Apostle (lol!) of a Mega Church, then he definitely would be the CEO/Pres/VP of a very successful business, so he, imho, would be wealthy anyways. John Gray, although I wouldn't trust him to run my business, he would still make 6 figures as a senior level businessman, at least. They don't deserve to be poor that is for sure, but they also shouldn't boast about their lavish lifestyle on untaxed dollars, either, and boy o'boy do they...

 

[michael777]

Usually the crazier the woman, the better the sex. I can understand how guys get sucked back into these situations when you have so much time invested, not to mention your heart. Once she's shacked up with another guy it's better to just move on than to always have that in the back of your mind.

The Bi Polar woman i dated for 2 years was the greatest in bed!!! Not worth it though after she started punching me as i was in the left hand lane ,lost control of the car, almost got killed. Funny thing is , we went that night to a movie and dinner, everything was fine , nothing at all bad happened at all, then she just went nuts, that was it for me

 

[$tinky]

I think they all have it.

 

[HarryCaray]

I think they all have it.

Hahaha amen, at least a little bit, no doubt

 

[MattyMatt]

The Bi Polar woman i dated for 2 years was the greatest in bed!!! Not worth it though after she started punching me as i was in the left hand lane ,lost control of the car, almost got killed. Funny thing is , we went that night to a movie and dinner, everything was fine , nothing at all bad happened at all, then she just went nuts, that was it for me

I know the feeling, lol. Live and learn, then RUN!!

 

[MattyMatt]

I think they all have it.

Can’t argue with that!

 

[bigbet1234]

You think Borderlines are bad?

Date a Histrionic Co-morbid with Narcissist traits= Covert Narcissist.

I finally broke away from her. You may suffer from cognitive dissonance, and trauma bonding. Best thing to do is let her go, and work on yourself. I spent 3 years with this chick trying to figure it out. And what I finally figured out is I need to do some self work.

The fucking lies and manipulation will drive you mad!

Has she been clinically diagnosed? If she is narcissist look the fuck out. Those monsters have no compassion or empathy. Covert is the worse. They will act like they do and apologize only to pull the wool over your eyes and keep doing the same shit.

Good luck!

 

[fightgood]

Duuuuuuuh, women know how to play the game. They were born with that survival instinct, they don't let you see the real them until it's too late

Some people say you have to look at their mother, if you don't like the mother chances are you won't like the daughter

It's really hard on us good guys that never grow up

Astute observation. They say you never know the woman you married until you get divorced.

They're like Chameleons