I agree. Awesome post. Figured people would go both ways. Guess there really isnt a right answer. Some girls I think would like it, others wouldnt.
My guess if you call they usually dont answer and you are stuck leaving a voicemail. Guess this isnt so bad if the ball goes back into her court.
This is why I think calling the first time can be a problem. There's a good chance she doesn't pick up, and even if you leave a voicemail, who's to say she'll read it? I never read my voicemail's on my cell. She might call back, but might not if it's an unknown number.
To be honest though, both can and should work if you're good enough with words and play both well. Texting has always worked for me, but I can see why people would say to be more personal and call.
Me and you agree on so much, and this as well. I thought Roger would dominate this match because he had a day off between matches. Are you surprised to see this? I laid a good chunk on Roger today. Thought the odds were way to low. Roger still is the best hard court player in the world.
Why don't you text her. Ask for her Facebook page.
Then you can text & email for the next 3 weeks.
Seriously, call her. If it doesn't work, oh well. Move on.
I realize that texting is extremely popular with the younger generation. High school, college, etc.
But everybody knows the younger generation is generally a bunch of spoiled pussies with limited social skills.
Don't hide behind a text-message.
Then you can text & email for the next 3 weeks.
Seriously, call her. If it doesn't work, oh well. Move on.
I realize that texting is extremely popular with the younger generation. High school, college, etc.
But everybody knows the younger generation is generally a bunch of spoiled pussies with limited social skills.
Don't hide behind a text-message.
if she wanted to read something from you , she would have given you her email address .
you seem a little nervous , so let me help you out.
know what youre gonna talk about if she answers . also know what youre gonna say if you get her voice mail.
nothing worse than leaving a some message that makes no sense.
one more thing , if she agrees to go out with you , go ahead and slip on the condom before you pick her up . i'm guessing the minute she gets in the car you're gonna blow in your jeans . she see's a stain and youre done.
you seem a little nervous , so let me help you out.
know what youre gonna talk about if she answers . also know what youre gonna say if you get her voice mail.
nothing worse than leaving a some message that makes no sense.
one more thing , if she agrees to go out with you , go ahead and slip on the condom before you pick her up . i'm guessing the minute she gets in the car you're gonna blow in your jeans . she see's a stain and youre done.
So since we have access to technology we're a bunch of spoiled social pussies? Interesting. Maybe we have evolved into a different group of social beings. Is that a possibility? Maybe we don't communicate like we did when we you were younger.
Texting has just given another option and a good one at that.
Just to add on to what I said already, here's the thing. If the conversation is awkward, that is your own fault and you need to be prepared when you call, and try to do it like I said (short call, high energy, set up next meeting, get off the phone first if you can, and try to do it on an emotional high note and not after an awkward silence or something). If she doesn't want to answer the phone, then again that is your fault from the first meeting, you didn't generate enough interest from her to care about you now, and a simple little text text isn't going to fix that either.
yeah bro, i was gonna say if she was under 25 or so, text her something nice. at her age, she is probably more professional and used to being on the phone. a call is what to do. its hard to get back in the swing of things but you will get the hang of it again. i would suggest finding out if she has baggage (kids) before you plan on much with the 1st girl since your breakup. that is just something you dont need to deal with. you are in the stage where you need to get laid a few times and live a little. do not fall in love with the 1st piece of pussy!!!:toast:
