are these bath houses in Oregon? i dont get it... ive never heard the expression and hes used it like 10 times in the past week, why is he fixated on such an act?
maybe you should take the bottom bunk from now on and make him sleep on the top one ...his tendencies are showing.
I don't know of any gay bath houses in Oregon. And no, our families live separately and we do not live in trailer parks, so I understand that it's not something you can easily relate to.
Your naivety is showing but I can't keep counseling you on such sophisticated English slang expressions. I'm afraid you will have to try a bit of socializing out in the world on your own and learn these things for yourself. Maybe your Dad has heard of it.