You can still live by Judeo-Christian values and accept people for who they are. In fact, that is an underlying theme of those traditions.
Even if you believe homosexuality is a sin, you shouldn't care too much about same-sex marriage being legalized. I believe marriage is an institution that the government should stay away from altogether.
Just a genuine question:
Why does a gay person's right to get married to someone of the same sex bother you, aside from it violating your religious beliefs?
Marriage doesn't bother me at all, but I have more of a concern with adoption. Some may be good parents, others are totally out there which can't be healthy for the child. Family stability is also important to me, and the homosexual community tends to be far more promiscuous leading to a less stable family life. I suppose every relationship should be judged on it's own merits, but I would expect a whole lot more homosexual couples to be found not good candidates for adoption
Just a genuine question:
Why does a gay person's right to get married to someone of the same sex bother you, aside from it violating your religious beliefs?
In short, it makes a mockery of what marriage is, and opens the door for adoption.
I'm fine with the concept of civil unions, and equal rights as far as tax/benefits - just don't call it marriage.
I think what he said makes a lot of sense, but the key point he makes is that every relationship should be judged on its own merits. I’ve never adopted but I’m sure the process is thorough and not just any couple is allowed to adopt. I’m also pretty sure that there are many cases where heterosexual couples adopt and end up abusing the adoptive child. Shit happens in all areas of life. I agree the probability of the abuse happening with a gay couple is greater but it’s also less likely those couples will get approved for adoption. The vetting process for adoptions to place these children is really the key issue here. If it’s not properly done then the chance for problems going forward are greatly enhanced no matter whether the couple is gay or not.Every point you made was without fact, untrue and simply ridiculous. I know you believe that was you being open minded but it was simply homophobic.
I think what he said makes a lot of sense, but the key point he makes is that every relationship should be judged on its own merits. I’ve never adopted but I’m sure the process is thorough and not just any couple is allowed to adopt. I’m also pretty sure that there are many cases where heterosexual couples adopt and end up abusing the adoptive child. Shit happens in all areas of life. I agree the probability of the abuse happening with a gay couple is greater but it’s also less likely those couples will get approved for adoption. The vetting process for adoptions to place these children is really the key issue here. If it’s not properly done then the chance for problems going forward are greatly enhanced no matter whether the couple is gay or not.
It’s a tough call, becausee you know there are plenty of homosexuals who could be great parents (and conversely, many straight people who are shitty parents). It’s hard to justify not letting someone be able to raise a kid because of something they have no control over, especially if they would be good parents.