I'm not going to let a few idiots change the way I live my life. Just like I would advise anyone in life, I believe you do the right thing, be good, be honest, treat people with respect, and let the chips fall where they may. You can't please everyone, so don't bother trying. People will disappoint you, including family. If you can look in the mirror and be proud, you have nothing to worry about.
There will always be assholes in this world, there will always be a racist jackass, just know that they are a fractional minority and stop being a victim.
We can't legislate utopia, so stop trying. Live life, be proud. There sre consequences for the decisions you make. Be it good or bad. Just ask Colin Kap