Question about cheating on a girlfriend/wife......

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Here is the question.....

Are there degrees of cheating? List in order of whicj=h is worse or if there is any difference at all.....

1. Flirting with random girls. (Basically just hitting on them)
2. Getting Drunk and just simply having sex with a girl.
3. Actually having conversation with a girl and knowing that someday soon you will be having sex with her.
4. Actually pursuing a girl that you intend to have sex with and you can see a future with.
 
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I am in a 2 year "relationship" and have flirted with and had sex with many girls during that time, but finally in the last month #3 has come into play and # 4 is going to come to fruition tonight and for some reason I am feeling somewhat different about it. I guess somewhat more guilty for some reason, but I know the girl I am with now, I have no future with and it is time to make a move.
 

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Don't do it, it ain't worth it.
 

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I am in a 2 year "relationship" and have flirted with and had sex with many girls during that time, but finally in the last month #3 has come into play and # 4 is going to come to fruition tonight and for some reason I am feeling somewhat different about it. I guess somewhat more guilty for some reason, but I know the girl I am with now, I have no future with and it is time to make a move.
thats why i put 1 at 1 it leads to 3 and 4
 
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Don't do it, it ain't worth it.

In normal circumstances, I would agree, but the girl I am stuck with right now means absolutly nothing to me at this point and my feeling towards her have been gone for almost a year. I am kind of stuck with her as I can not really dump her for another 16 days for personal reasons. Now that I am so close to being rid of her, I am so ready to move and this girl seems to be the whole package or as close as I can see a chick being one.
 

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It all depends whats accepted within the relationship basically it's what you both are comfortable with but really it sounds like the relationship is already over in your head. Thee heart wants what it wants. Is this next girl someone worth pursuing or just an escape from your current relationship?
 

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I don't understand why you would be in a relationship for 2 years where you don't give a shit about it and freely cheat? Wouldn't it be tougher to stay in a lame relationship like that than to just get out of it?
 
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I don't understand why you would be in a relationship for 2 years where you don't give a shit about it and freely cheat? Wouldn't it be tougher to stay in a lame relationship like that than to just get out of it?

It has been brutal the last 12 months, but she is a vindictful person and she has something hanging over my head for another 16 days, so I have had to put up with it.
 

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It has been brutal the last 12 months, but she is a vindictful person and she has something hanging over my head for another 16 days, so I have had to put up with it.

I guess thats what happens when you date your Parole officer...JK
 

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pull the trigger my man.

nothing better than getting into a new girls pants. its all downhill from there so enjoy it now
 

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Here is the question.....

Are there degrees of cheating? List in order of whicj=h is worse or if there is any difference at all.....

1. Flirting with random girls. (Basically just hitting on them)
2. Getting Drunk and just simply having sex with a girl.
3. Actually having conversation with a girl and knowing that someday soon you will be having sex with her.
4. Actually pursuing a girl that you intend to have sex with and you can see a future with.


somebody fell in lust at the mudfest.


go for it 123


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1 is the only one that can be acceptable. Any of the others and your relationship sucks.
 

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nobody has listed # 2 as the worst ??

what is wrong with you guys ? its the only one in which something has actually happened...
 

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In normal circumstances, I would agree, but the girl I am stuck with right now means absolutly nothing to me at this point and my feeling towards her have been gone for almost a year. I am kind of stuck with her as I can not really dump her for another 16 days for personal reasons. Now that I am so close to being rid of her, I am so ready to move and this girl seems to be the whole package or as close as I can see a chick being one.



never heard of having to wait a specific number of days ..

let us in on the secret ....
 

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nobody has listed # 2 as the worst ??

what is wrong with you guys ? its the only one in which something has actually happened...

I guess a lot of people are more concerned about the alienation of affection and love as opposed to a meaningless romp.
 

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