My son tore his labrum in both his shoulders about 4 years ago. I was surprised to learn that this injury is somewhat common. He ended up getting surgery on one of his shoulders, but told me that he regrets getting it as he can't tell much difference between the one that was operated on and the one that wasn't. That's just his opinion. He had to stop playing sports as it very painful with quick, sudden movement. I know it's a tough decision whether to have surgery or not. Best of luck to you and if I can help you in any way feel free to ask or pm if you want. I'm no expert but I'll try to help if I can.