LISTEN UP KID NEXT TIME YOU HAVE GIRL PROBLEMS DONT TAKE THEM TO A MENS GAMBLING FORUM.MY TIME IS VALUABLE AND I WASTED 10 MINUTES GIVING YOU ADVICE ABOUT WOMEN WHEN I COULD HAVE BEEN GIVING THE DEADBEATS A WINNER TONIGHT.TREEHOUSE DONT FORGET THE BEANTOWNJIM TEST TO MAKE SURE SHE ISNT COLORED BLIND I WOULD HATE FOR YOU TO HAVE YOUR HEART BROKEN WHEN SHE GOES OFF WITH KEVIN GARNETT.GOOD LUCK KID AND BEANTOWNJIM WANTS DETAILS LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU GET A PIECE
Vaulted,
I think you made a big mistake by sounding excited on the message like that. Your best bet is to wait a couple of days, ask for a date for the following weekend and if she says no (prepare for that b/c the chance is high) then say something polite and then forget about her. But before you ask her, make small talk of course, ask about her day etc. and then show her some of your best stuff, whatever works for you. I usually get good results by telling her that I have a complex theory about life which I would love to tell her but it's very complex and so requires several dates, but I can understand if she doesn't have the patience for it. They invariably say "oooh, that sounds interesting" and will only say no to a date if she's got a bf already.
But whatever you do you gotta be you. And if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be and time to move on.
GL in any case
I think you made a big mistake by sounding excited on the message like that. Your best bet is to wait a couple of days, ask for a date for the following weekend and if she says no (prepare for that b/c the chance is high) then say something polite and then forget about her. But before you ask her, make small talk of course, ask about her day etc. and then show her some of your best stuff, whatever works for you. I usually get good results by telling her that I have a complex theory about life which I would love to tell her but it's very complex and so requires several dates, but I can understand if she doesn't have the patience for it. They invariably say "oooh, that sounds interesting" and will only say no to a date if she's got a bf already.
But whatever you do you gotta be you. And if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be and time to move on.
GL in any case
angelle, the rules book was originally for men, then there was the women's version, pretty crappy cliche books if you ask me.
anyways, bol vaulted, don't get hung up man, women (and music, and gambling, and friends and family) are one of the few reasons why we stay alive, do your thing and i am sure it ll will work out, if it doesn't it was probably not meant to be.
p.s. angelle, are the rumours correct that you are hitting it off with our former rx boss, and currently just another poster, the shrink, dunno, or cant remember where i heard them but it must have been this forum or another ,in any case they might just have been malicious rumours, happy new year.
jack.
Jack, please post links to other forums in the site promos section please....thank you
[This message was edited by bucsfan67 on January 02, 2004 at 11:04 PM.]
anyways, bol vaulted, don't get hung up man, women (and music, and gambling, and friends and family) are one of the few reasons why we stay alive, do your thing and i am sure it ll will work out, if it doesn't it was probably not meant to be.
p.s. angelle, are the rumours correct that you are hitting it off with our former rx boss, and currently just another poster, the shrink, dunno, or cant remember where i heard them but it must have been this forum or another ,in any case they might just have been malicious rumours, happy new year.
jack.
Jack, please post links to other forums in the site promos section please....thank you
[This message was edited by bucsfan67 on January 02, 2004 at 11:04 PM.]
i wasn't promoting anyone here bucs, so i won't go into the trouble of posting anything in the promo forum, is the censorship allowing me to rephrase the "or another" in the phrase "this forum or another" which are not my actual two words, with peep's forum, cause that's where i thought i read this rumour, plain and simple.
bol, happy new year. jack.
bol, happy new year. jack.
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Tatiana:
Today's woman just wants you to get in their pants first night. If you don't they lose interest. Usually when I meet pretty hot girl the first night we end up sleeping together. That is how it is. If you met her in a club this is how it is for sure. Be more agressive.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
LOL...Club women maybe as its a meat market
Today's woman just wants you to get in their pants first night. If you don't they lose interest. Usually when I meet pretty hot girl the first night we end up sleeping together. That is how it is. If you met her in a club this is how it is for sure. Be more agressive.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
LOL...Club women maybe as its a meat market
Good luck and great if it works out for you....
I'm sorta siding with earl about the retiring from women...
If she's anywhere close to being someone worth getting to know then she'll probably glue herself to some smooth talking liar who is bankrupt of character and whose hobbies include:
wifebeating, cheating, and dodging child support on 3 to 5 kids that he doesn't see or bother to even acknowledge as his....but of course this one is different and she is the "only one"...
as he tells her....
very little justice in the world......if you're a nice guy then you should settle for last cuz thats where you're gonna be....
trophies go to the cavemen of society....
frankly speaking you'd be better off getting a dog....if you want loyalty and companionship and something you can trust, then get a black lab....
I'm sorta siding with earl about the retiring from women...
If she's anywhere close to being someone worth getting to know then she'll probably glue herself to some smooth talking liar who is bankrupt of character and whose hobbies include:
wifebeating, cheating, and dodging child support on 3 to 5 kids that he doesn't see or bother to even acknowledge as his....but of course this one is different and she is the "only one"...
as he tells her....
very little justice in the world......if you're a nice guy then you should settle for last cuz thats where you're gonna be....
trophies go to the cavemen of society....
frankly speaking you'd be better off getting a dog....if you want loyalty and companionship and something you can trust, then get a black lab....
Here is some excellent advice.
Every Thursday, from 5pm to 7pm PST, (in Los Angeles, anyways) Tom has his weekly class. Leykis 101 is Tom's ongoing, on-air, adult education course that teaches men how to get more tail for less money... and, more importantly, teaches women how men think!
NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!
Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.
Don't ask a women what she wants to do.
Never tell a women how much money you make.
Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.
Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.
Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.
NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.
If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.
No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!
Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.
NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.
Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't date them. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.
Every Thursday, from 5pm to 7pm PST, (in Los Angeles, anyways) Tom has his weekly class. Leykis 101 is Tom's ongoing, on-air, adult education course that teaches men how to get more tail for less money... and, more importantly, teaches women how men think!
NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!
Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.
Don't ask a women what she wants to do.
Never tell a women how much money you make.
Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.
Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.
Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.
NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.
If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.
No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!
Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.
NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.
Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't date them. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.
