Is it a dick move on my part to date a married woman???

[barman]

Remember harrington, is she cheats on her husband with you, she will cheat on you with someone else.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Good point.

But really only important if Harry develops a desire that she and he be long term exclusive.

Trust me (based on my personal experience in the seven years between my two marriages) - he'll get tired of this gal within a few months at most, at which time he will be thankful when The Next Guy comes and takes her away.

 

[barman]

You've already (in) her so why stop now?

psssst....Seymour....

Harry didn't really want Life Advice

He just wanted his Rx buds to know he's getting his ashes hauled

play along like you give a crap

:drink:

 

[festeringZit]

After my wife and I split up it just kind of happened. Deep down I know it is wrong and I keep saying I will tell her we must stop for now but then one thing leads to another and we end up in the sack again. I guess I've always been a selfish guy and this proves it.

"deep down I know it is wrong..."

Then listen to your own conscience.

For what a man sows, that he shall also reap.

 

[OccamsRazor]

Dick

 

[barman]

Over/Under on the number of times this gal has told Harrington

"That's so good! My husband will Never do that..."


Over 2.5 (-130)
Under (+110)

 

[Enfuego]

There not your marriage vows you are breaking. You technically aren't committing adultery but you are enabling someone else to. I say you only live once so do what makes you feel happy even if it is at somebody's expense. But try to just screw her just once. You don't want to carry on a relationship with a married woman because that is how you get shot.

I guess if you need money then you should steal from someone.

I guess if you want to take that dream vacation then you should commit credit card fraud at someone else's expense.

I guess if you're Bernie Madoff then what the hell right?

Weird post. "But try to just screw her just once." Good grief.

 

[TheRocker]

Dating someone else's wife is a dick move, no matter what the circumstances. There are more than three billion women in the world, many of them unmarried, so why do you have to chase a married one? Don't be a loser.

 

[Dante]

come on harry... how old are you? you know what is right here... this can only end up in you getting a black eye or worse from the guy when this girl gets tired of the game she is using you for

 

[barman]

I guess if you need money then you should steal from someone.

I guess if you want to take that dream vacation then you should commit credit card fraud at someone else's expense.

I guess if you're Bernie Madoff then what the hell right?

You're fixating on actions which only involve the consent of one party. (the thief)

Harry might be worthy of an Ethics foul, depending on who the ref is tonight, but he's not stealing anything, unless perhaps one considers a married woman to be the literal property of her husband.

 

[barman]

come on harry... how old are you? you know what is right here... this can only end up in you getting a black eye or worse from the guy when this girl gets tired of the game she is using you for

Don't discount the stronger odds which are that this will cool and even cease without the cuckold realizing what's up.

 

[punter]

I dunno about a "dick" move. Might be a Dirk move. When them gals get left lone and passed around there could be a reason.

 

[Legend-I-Aint]

Does she swallow?@)

 

[punter]

Married women aint all that bad. I prescribe to the code of the frontier. That's where anything caught in the other mans trap belongs to him.

Notice how some folks dont resemble their daddys?

 

[GilRenard]

As a wise man stated earlier in the thread, I would be less worried about the fact that she's married than that she is your co-worker. That is playing with fire, my friend. End it now.

 

[VIEJODINOSAUR]

Nothing to gain doing married chicks....playing with serious fire....

 

[Enfuego]

You're fixating on actions which only involve the consent of one party. (the thief)

Harry might be worthy of an Ethics foul, depending on who the ref is tonight, but he's not stealing anything, unless perhaps one considers a married woman to be the literal property of her husband.

The poster said you should do what makes you happy even if at someone else's expense. The comparison is relevant and does apply and has nothing to do with consent. In all of these situations and in his current situation he would be doing something that makes him happy at the expense of another knowing full well it's wrong.

 

[harrington]

I can't stop seeing her. I think I really want to see if she leaves. I'm ready to move her in anytime and give it a go. She would be sharing custody of her two teenagers so I have to give that some thought. My youngest is off to college in August and then it will be just me.

 

[hater]

Find another rebound harrington...like someone else said, if she cheated on her hubby with you, she will cheat on you with someone else.

Plus, all the talk about " I will leave them in a year and be with you".....men invented that.

 

[BET.THE.DOGS]

just remember, guns dont kill people, husbands that come home early do!

 

[hater]

LMAO, she says she is not intimate with her husband....jeeeez that's a load of shit. Your swimmers are swimming with his right now.

You also run the risk of getting fired.