OMG, i had a horrible, horrible night. I thought i was huge trouble. The lump is still there and really hasnt gotten any smaller like i originaly thought. I hadnt thought much about it until last night. Then like a big dummy i started searching the web for answers and didnt like what i found!!!! I was always under the impression that the VAST majority of lumps were benign and harmless. BUT, thats not at all true with neck lumps. 80% of neck masses in adults are malignant!!!! I nearly fell right out of my chair, i couldnt believe what i was reading. As a matter of fact docs even use the term "the rule of 80" to describe neck lumps. And state all neck masses in adults should be treated as neoplasms (cancer i assume) until proven otherwise. It was a long horrible night of thinking i was going to die!! I kept having people look at my lump, and always got the same resonse, yep, something dont look right there. So i got off work this morning, and waited until the DR opened and called for an appointment. They couldnt get me in to Friday!! But apparently the girl who took the appointment told my doc what was up, and i got a phone call about an hour later and he wanted me to come in right away!! I knew i was doomed then, i was SOOOO scared. But it all ended great!!! Doc looked at the lump and said its not a "mass" so to speak. But a collection of harmless fat tissue and muscle. He says its not at all consistant with a swollen lymph node or a tumor!!! I was soooo relieved. I feel like i got a new lease on life. I guess you just never know what can happen in life. :toast: