I smoked since I was 18. I'm 37 now and I've quit before around 34 for a year, then picked it back up and quit again at 35ish. Its a habit, nothing more, a bad habit. I have two daughters, now 3 and 4 and I said to myself, that I do not want to hug or kiss them with the way smoking makes your breath and body smell. I didn't want them to see me smoking or ask me what that is. But I do also have an occasional cigar, maybe once every two months or so.
Dont set a future date of quitting, cause that can always change, or you will say, OMG, this is my last day, let me smoke up..
na man, just quit, its a bad habit. I feel better, I'm not coughing up mucas every day, I'm active more and I can fuk longer. Plus the wife likes the fact I dont smell like shit anymore.
trust me, my brother still smokes and I dont even have the urge to grab a smoke. or if he or anyone else, and they come talk to me right after, I'm like Damn, you stink! I can't believe thats how I use to be.
Bad habit and its mental. To be effective, make it a HABIT not to smoke. 2-3 weeks are tough, then its easy as hell. That is with any habit, make it part of your life for about 2-3 weeks and you will start doing it daily. So make not smoking part of your habit.
Also, dont drink cause that will make you want a cigg more, because you know, it goes tougher right. Drink water and tons of it. Even if you want to go outside and smoke, chug a bottle water, you will feel full.
Basically whatever you do while you smoke, avoid it. Like if you answer the phone and go outside to talk. Dont answer, just text back. Or want to play candy crush, delete that fukn game. Or you know that you will have a smoke after lunch, dont say that to your self. Put a reminder on your phone daily saying something motivational. Go on websites and search people who smoke lungs, etc, etc...
Good luck!