Yes
My favorite day is the shopping day I spend with my son and daughter. My wife is NOT invited, and neither are their spouses. We shop, we drink, we laugh, no restrictions, and I buy them something special. Been doing that for 25 years now, since they were like 10.
Their mother is a pain in the ass to shop with, and my daughter in law came once but she changed the whole dynamic. So it's just the three of us.
Then I have a day with the grandchildren when I tell them they could pick out anything they want. So far they're pretty cheap. Might rethink that strategy as they age.
Anyhow, I spend too much. Got that from my mother. And I wouldn't change a thing