That, sir, is positive re-enforcement.michael777 said:i am 43,never been married,never had any interest,not gay,just would rather gamble,been gambling since i was 12,love life,no regrets,having a great time,own racehorses,do what i want when i want,never lonely,what a great countryk:
One thing you got going for you is the age difference. I'll be 40 on Thanksgiving and my wife is 9 years younger than me. She's Japanese and cooks, cleans, etc. All that s*** its hard to get America girls to do. Been with her 12 years (that's right, she was a teenager when I met her). Best thing that has ever happened to me. If she does the chores with a smile and you really do love her.. then go for it. Good luck with your decision.
My personal bio: married twice...one divorce
First time I married I knew it was wrong but went ahead nontheless. After 5 years of hell, 2 kids, countless affairs and who knows how much money and still paying I can tell you bros to be very careful.
With my present wife I would never dream of cheating on her. Let me tell you, it feels great to be able to say that.
The fact you came here and posted your question tells me your not sure. If thats the case back out. Im serious. You will know when its right.
Sounds corny but its the truth.
First time I married I knew it was wrong but went ahead nontheless. After 5 years of hell, 2 kids, countless affairs and who knows how much money and still paying I can tell you bros to be very careful.
With my present wife I would never dream of cheating on her. Let me tell you, it feels great to be able to say that.
The fact you came here and posted your question tells me your not sure. If thats the case back out. Im serious. You will know when its right.
Sounds corny but its the truth.
bookie said:
Most of my friends are either my age and single for life, or divorced. What advice do you think they gave me? Their wingman who goes on all the great trips to Vegas and the Islands, etc? They are trying to sabotage this thing. My few married friends? They say they love it but it's hard to tell if they are telling the truth...
No, she doesn't know I gamble but I am not a heavy gambler. The most I ever bet is a nickel a game and I only play what I can afford to lose. When I was poor, and believe me I was dirt poor, I never bet.
Anyway, thanks for the advice. I appreciate it. No, I am not 100% sure but are we ever 100% sure about anything in life?? I'll try and keep it the way it is for now but you know the holidays are coming up and I bet her friends and family think a ring is coming. This is going to be awkward...
On the good side, at least your kin will be close to Rikers should being a douce bag become a felony.
Anywho, since this is serious -- man, just follow your instincts. If you lasted this long in the gambling world they must be fairly sharp (unlike your politico knowledge
).
And FWIW - my son wasn't planned, but it turned out to be the greatest blessing in my life.
It's not something that you will regret if you're already considering.
Anywho, since this is serious -- man, just follow your instincts. If you lasted this long in the gambling world they must be fairly sharp (unlike your politico knowledge
).And FWIW - my son wasn't planned, but it turned out to be the greatest blessing in my life.
It's not something that you will regret if you're already considering.
