There is no comparison. Party is a poker room and Bodog is an Amway scheme...But you may not like Party, most people who play there either love it or hate it...i'm going to tell you why. regardless of which site you play at you must adapt your game to the structures at that site. you cant play at Party the same way you play at Bodog, or Stars or Full Tilt.whatever....you have to take the time to learn the structures, learn the habits of the site, learn what games at what times are best suited for you. this must be done at any site...dont go in expecting to play like bodog and just resume where you left off..step down in money a step or 2, give it a few weeks to find your groove and soon you'll be calling it home. and if in a few weeks you still dont feel comfortable try another..but give them all a fair shot. dont take 1 badbeat and declare you hate the place..
p.s...my name at most sites is AllynLong...fell free to put me down as your referral.....lol