this is a good answer i agree with....but what if that one longshot happened to your daughter what would you do(or her)........i know id have the termination and be sick about it but i would for her life
Good question.
There are many hypotheticals we could agonize over -- i.e., if two of my sisters were drowning and I could I only save one, which one would I choose etc. -- so prefer to defer such agonizing decisions until the day they actually happen, God forbid.