C'mon Elvira, you know very well that porno is not the same as the real thing. Every hooker I've ever talked to said that if it wasn't for married men, they'd have to find another line of work.
This is one thing about European culture which is much better than American culture IMO. Here if a man and a woman meet for non-business related reasons, it's clear that there is a potential sexual element to it. It's harder to get a date, but once you get one, you have a good chance to score. In America you can wine her, dine her, pay big bucks, talk about all sorts of stupid things just to find out that you had no chance from the start. Europeans don't waste their time like that.