Are male orgasms more physical or psychological?

[aceduecetrey]

Serious question.......

The last 6 or 7 times I have tried to "finish" with my girlfriend, I have not been able to. It is not really bothering me, but she is really freaking out about it. I really love this girl more than I ever have any other in my life and I am very attracted to her physically. She is on birth control (ring) and to be honest, I would not mind at all if she did become pregnent and a part of me actually hopes that she does. So I guess the question is do I need a shrink or a doctor or where would you guys begin?

I know this in the RR so I will get some crazy responses, but what the fuck, I am really wondering what the hell to dol.

 

[steaktartar]

You Cant Cum?

 

[birminghambook]

just fake them....i am sure she does....or maybe you can watch gay porn while doing her from behind..you can pretend she is a man :smoking:and maybe that will get you off.

:think2:

 

[PornoPaul]

Great topic... LOL Dont get me started..

PP

 

[whalewager]

probably stress or meds you are on

 

[aceduecetrey]

You Cant Cum?

Have not been able to recently....


As far as stress and meds.....

I am stressed, but I dont think any more so than any other time and the meds I take have been consistant for a long while now.

I dont care if it is something in my mind as I know that I am fucked up upstairs to begin with as long as there is no concern in regards to my physical health. That is my main concern....

 

[DimeBag]

Maybe you are all dried up down there.

 

[aceduecetrey]

Maybe you are all dried up down there.

Is that possible at 31?

 

[DimeBag]

Is that possible at 31?

I just turned 30 and I think I am running on an eighth of a tank.

 

[HarryCaray]

I have the opposite problem. Mine goes off if it brushes my boxers the right way.

 

[CaptainBone]

Your health should be fine. I had the same problem earlier this year and I'm only 22. I went to my reg doc who referred me to a urinologist (i think thats what their called). He said i checked out fine and its strictly mental. Got drunk enough one night to where the issue of cumming wasn't one because I was too wasted to think about and shot off a nice load. Been good ever since. You can get my email from a mod if you have any other questions I might be able to help you with

 

[kingbill]

Stop Masterbating...be selfish and focus on yourself...don't worry about making her Cum...she's probably pretty good at it herself...hearing you moan and get enjoyment...

Um were you raised Catholic? Guilt? Gay? Bored?

 

[RebuyGuy]

:nosepicki

 

[kingbill]

Serious question.......

The last 6 or 7 times I have tried to "finish" with my girlfriend, I have not been able to. It is not really bothering me, but she is really freaking out about it. I really love this girl more than I ever have any other in my life and I am very attracted to her physically. She is on birth control (ring) and to be honest, I would not mind at all if she did become pregnent and a part of me actually hopes that she does. So I guess the question is do I need a shrink or a doctor or where would you guys begin?

I know this in the RR so I will get some crazy responses, but what the fuck, I am really wondering what the hell to dol.

OK seriously...he's my Pop Psychology response...

You really like her...Dare I say respect her...when was the last time you respected a girl...maybe the last few women you've been with you were just trying to get your rocks of and be done with it...we all know the story of your Ex...and you've tied some negative emotions to the act of Cumming...and you don't feel right letting your negative emotions come out with your new girl...

Thats my free analysis it costs $$$ to get a more in depth answer.

 

[rayray]

sex got boring for a while. i got into a bad rut and was thinking i had no reason to fuk her when i got chicken nuggets to get off too. put the porn away for a week or so...ahahaha yeah right

 

[mlfp]

kingbill just hit it hard. otherwise have a doctor shove a finger up your ass because you might have colon issues.

Here's my clinical analysis:
Watch the game over her shoulder and it shouldn't be a problem.

 

[MrJ]

I think we're all missing the important part of this thread:

PornoPaul please link a full-sized pic of your avatar.

 

[MIKEY.1TIME]

while you are getting a beaner, have your chick stick her finger up your sphincter.... end of problem

 

[sumday]

serious answer

it might be because you respect her too much. next time while you are at it trying secretly telling yourself that she's a dirty whore and think about your own enjoyment and you will explode.

 

[mlfp]

it might be because you respect her too much. next time while you are at it trying secretly telling yourself that she's a dirty whore and think about your own enjoyment and you will explode.

Helps to call her a dirty whore too.