Anyone have a friend with benefits??

[bigbet1234]

New to me. This chick can’t be real. Haha. I told her I’m not interested in a relationship because I just ended one not to long ago, don’t need a rebound.

She said she’s fine just hanging out, drinking beer and having sex. No strings attached. Is this a fucking trap??? I’m serious. Haha

Been hanging with her a couple weeks now. She does text a lot, I think she might be getting attached. But I was upfront and she agreed to just hang out. How wrong is this? It feels wrong. Lol

She loves football(Alabama, Patriots) not fans, but she actually knows what’s going on. She’s hot, a little crazy but we all are. Just a odd situation.

 

[Willie99]

Sadly, not in 38 years give or take

 

[Bozzie]

She's prefect for 99% of the single dudes in here..Crazy and hot is the very best... without the borderline shit.

Don't blow it and we need pics.

 

[bigbet1234]

She's prefect for 99% of the single dudes in here..Crazy and hot is the very best... without the borderline shit.

Don't blow it and we need pics.

Hahaha. Not sure how much longer I can keep it up with her. She’s coming down tonight. She’s like I can’t wait to see you. Friends don’t say that shit. I don’t want to hurt her, but can’t pass it up. Haha

 

[Bozzie]

Hahaha. Not sure how much longer I can keep it up with her. She’s coming down tonight. She’s like I can’t wait to see you. Friends don’t say that shit. I don’t want to hurt her, but can’t pass it up. Haha

Just say "me too" in those moments..Worked like a charm for years here and is just enough to keep the" fucking good friend" thing going.


Happy boning dude.

 

[bigbet1234]

She's prefect for 99% of the single dudes in here..Crazy and hot is the very best... without the borderline shit.

Don't blow it and we need pics.

I’d post a pic if I knew how. Lol

The last girl I was with had to be histrionic with narcissist traits. Craizer than a shit house mouse, but the sex was unreal. Although a little fake/porn like. She couldn’t remain faithful and needed attention from multiple dudes. A d she drank morning, noon and night and never held a job. In reality didn’t need to with 10k alimony and a wealthy family

 

[bigbet1234]

Just say "me too" in those moments..Worked like a charm for years here and is just enough to keep the" fucking good friend" thing going.


Happy boning dude.

I guess I could. But I don’t mean it. Said she’s ready to give me a mind blowing hummer. Hahaha. I’m like, ok.

 

[Bozzie]

I’d post a pic if I knew how. Lol

The last girl I was with had to be histrionic with narcissist traits. Craizer than a shit house mouse, but the sex was unreal. Although a little fake/porn like. She couldn’t remain faithful and needed attention from multiple dudes. A d she drank morning, noon and night and never held a job. In reality didn’t need to with 10k alimony and a wealthy family

Dated a borderline personality, It wasn't fun at all..sexy but surreal most days..no thanks.

Good luck dude and have fun

 

[thetout]

I would guess u r not the only one in her rotation. Yes they have and call it a rotation

 

[REDEYE]

had one of those arrangements a few years back.. actually went on for 3 years.. longer than some real relationships I've had...lol

 

[bigbet1234]

I would guess u r not the only one in her rotation. Yes they have and call it a rotation

You might be right.

 

[thetout]

Have fun but don't overthink it. Be safe

 

[ConleyPicks]

I would guess u r not the only one in her rotation. Yes they have and call it a rotation

I hope it's not a 6 man rotation

 

[CoolBreeze22]

Fun while they last. Most times one person(usually the woman) does end up getting hurt when they catch feelings for the other person. Just from what you've said it sounds like this chick actually likes you and probably hopes for something long term eventually where your other chick sounds like more of the rotational type girl(always needs a man yet always has a few guys waiting in the bullpen, can move from one guy to the next really fast). Was the last chick the yoga teacher or are you already a few chicks removed from her?

 

[bigbet1234]

Fun while they last. Most times one person(usually the woman) does end up getting hurt when they catch feelings for the other person. Just from what you've said it sounds like this chick actually likes you and probably hopes for something long term eventually where your other chick sounds like more of the rotational type girl(always needs a man yet always has a few guys waiting in the bullpen, can move from one guy to the next really fast). Was the last chick the yoga teacher or are you already a few chicks removed from her?

Hahaha. Yea, the yoga chick. She “rarely” did yoga any more she drank so damn much. She’s a mental case I got hooked too. Still slowly breaking free. Everything in her life was fake. So be it. But yea. Don’t date around much and known this FWB for a while. She’s independent, owns her own home and her job is in arts. Right up my alley. Fun chick to hang with. I’ll tread slowly.

 

[HarryCaray]

It's a trap, she wants more and this is her strategy for getting a foot in the door.

 

[Bozzie]

Hahaha. Yea, the yoga chick. She “rarely” did yoga any more she drank so damn much. She’s a mental case I got hooked too. Still slowly breaking free. Everything in her life was fake. So be it. But yea. Don’t date around much and known this FWB for a while. She’s independent, owns her own home and her job is in arts. Right up my alley. Fun chick to hang with. I’ll tread slowly.

Ever looked up borderline?

pretty interesting little gems..run

 

[bigbet1234]

Ever looked up borderline?

pretty interesting little gems..run

Oh yea. Dude, she’s beyond borderline. More narcissist. Complete mind fuckery.

 

[bigbet1234]

It's a trap, she wants more and this is her strategy for getting a foot in the door.

I agree

 

[HarryCaray]

I agree

The correct play is to continue to be brutally honest and have regular conversations that make your intentions (or lack thereof) clear.
You will avoid a very messy situation down the road.
If you don't, before you know it you will be in a position where you (a) have to sneak around to fuck other girls and/or (b) have to officially break up with her when you want to be done with the arrangement. Not sure if you were legitimately friends with her before this, but if you care about that either one of these will wreck that.