It is really funny how racially biased most of the posts here are. Is everyone really this small-minded as to think the world is only as big as your immediate surroundings and everything is as cut and dry as your tiny anecdotal amount of evidence? Things really are as you want to see them.
This morning there is a successful financial analyst eating brunch with his wife in Manhattan. They are ordering champagne mimosas, raw oysters and $98 steak and eggs while discussing which vintage Opus One they'll be opening that evening. When the white gloved server brings the bill the couple will tip 40% in cash and take their 2015 Mercedes back to their penthouse apartment overlooking Central Park. This couple is black.
A few hundred miles away a couple finishes angrily eating with their 5 noisy ass kids at a diner. All those mouths have totaled a $50 tab. They hardly have enough money to pay for the lot fees at their trailer park so they are paying for this measly breakfast with wrinkled up bills and spare change collected from under the car seats. They walk away from their messy booth leaving .04 cents as tip and a shitty diaper stuffed under the table. This family is white.
Perception is all about where you are and what you see.
Tipping has a lot more to do with your economic status and where you are from than it does with race no matter how stereotypical you want to be. As someone else pointed out it is also helpful if you have worked in a service industry before and know that the tips are how that person pays their rent and puts food on their table.. Not a paycheck.
This morning there is a successful financial analyst eating brunch with his wife in Manhattan. They are ordering champagne mimosas, raw oysters and $98 steak and eggs while discussing which vintage Opus One they'll be opening that evening. When the white gloved server brings the bill the couple will tip 40% in cash and take their 2015 Mercedes back to their penthouse apartment overlooking Central Park. This couple is black.
A few hundred miles away a couple finishes angrily eating with their 5 noisy ass kids at a diner. All those mouths have totaled a $50 tab. They hardly have enough money to pay for the lot fees at their trailer park so they are paying for this measly breakfast with wrinkled up bills and spare change collected from under the car seats. They walk away from their messy booth leaving .04 cents as tip and a shitty diaper stuffed under the table. This family is white.
Perception is all about where you are and what you see.
Tipping has a lot more to do with your economic status and where you are from than it does with race no matter how stereotypical you want to be. As someone else pointed out it is also helpful if you have worked in a service industry before and know that the tips are how that person pays their rent and puts food on their table.. Not a paycheck.