no problem here..i had forgotten about creating this thread anyway and now while sober i will let you in on the story...i had no idea about the first 3 women being married until after the fact and to be honest i felt betrayed,with a couple of them because i would have liked to see them more...i don't want no trouble,nor do i wish to be shot and i also would not want my wife doing it...
all of this came to a head about 4 days or so before i created this thread..an old girlfriend of 20 or so years ago that i have kept in contact with,but had not seen in about 15 years came to town for a budget meeting..i knew she was married,and have never once asked her "happily or not"..when we had talked on phone or email i never asked nor did i really care...i guess i did not want to hear she was happy or whatever?
well she came to town a couple of weeks ago and we met at a bar,i had changed so much she did not even recognize me and to be honest she was much different than i remember too..but she was hotter!so we sat there for about 3 hours or so drinking and catching up and then we went and did it...
all i was saying in the first part of thread is women in that age range seem to go through something and from what i can tell from my experience is that their husband basically ignores them or talks down to them and when they go out and get a compliment or a little attention being paid to them they will stray...
i have not said hey to a woman yet and got this back "i am married,stay away"... they wanted attention and were not about to blow it by telling me or anyone else that...they simply choose to suck it all in and bask in their glory...they know they hold the key and believe me man i know it sucks...
the suave and debonair comment was making fun of my picture on here...i feel i am neither,just a good conversationalist and somewhat of a good personality and can pretty much talk to anyone