We have the most trusting relationship and we talk about everything. Yes, we can give up an idea if one of us isn't ready. But everyone can talk and voice their fantasy. I think that's the key to a happy relationship. And about the rough stuff... No, it's not for us, not even for a change.
I haven't tried it yet, but my wife and I have already discussed what we want to try. We are new to this, have never tried it, but have heard and read a lot, yesterday we bought a bdsm bar. If anyone has tried it share your experiences. It will be interesting to read. The main thing is to trust your partner, then you can afford to try anything and not be afraid of judgment or anything else.
