I think the reason I did not find it racist is I am not white (if anyone has met me at the bash they can confirm and know I am mixed) I have experienced REAL racism, things said 100x worse and to my face, physical altercations on more than on one occasion. I am not one to ever play the race card but when it is the real cause of an issue then it is what it is.... What this old man said to his gf hardly bothers anyone who has experienced real hate
Thank you.